Being diagnosed with cancer, undergoing surgery and adjusting to an ostomy can be very stressful. It is not unusual or unexpected to have days when you may feel sad or depressed. These feelings are normal, and will pass with time. It is important to express your feelings. You may cry, be hostile, angry, nasty and otherwise react in ways that are unusual for you.
Remember, you are not alone. Family, friends and other people who have an ostomy can be a great support for you at this time.
The Canadian Cancer Society and the United Ostomy Association are two groups that offer support and education to individuals and families dealing with a cancer diagnosis and new ostomy. Excellent pamphlets and booklets can provide you with information and help you cope with the stress and challenges. Both groups also have a well-established Visitor's Program. Many people find it beneficial to talk with someone who has been there and has learned how to cope and accept the changes. Your doctor or nurse can give you additional information about these groups.
Like the thousands of people who have had colostomy , ileostomy or urostomy surgery, you will find that life with an ostomy can be positive. With time and support, you will find that you can do a lot more with life than merely cope!
